May 23, 2012
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I once read that usually it's the people around you that make you depressed, and I think that it's my parents who are doing this to me. Earlier today my parents were screaming at each other in the car with me and my dad literally screamed "Fuck you!" at me with less than a foot between us. I don't know if I'm just over exaggerating things or if I should go to like child protective services,
Anonymous
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Every person is different, and maybe your dad is just used to those ways of parenting. If it really bothers you, tell him. If he reacts in a negative way, then you can seek help

May 17, 2012
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some days i feel so sad that i come home and just sleep. i dont do work, or feel like moving. it hurts to move,think,breathe. i hate it. its horrible, feeling hated, not good enough for anyone, annoying, fat, ugly. its so hard to love yourself and your personality when everyone around you is skinny and pretty. im not. im the opposite
Anonymous
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What you’re experiencing is depression. I best suggest that you go get anti depressants. So many people disagree with them, and they’re right. AD’s are not for everyone, but they’re going to help you get the energy to come home and work. If you don’t want to go to that extreme, try having coffee when you get home? Relax for a bit, then start doing your work. As soon as you turn your life around you’re going to feel better ,and then your attitude will change 

May 17, 2012
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I don't know how to tell my therapist that I'm not happy, that I cut, that I HATE eating, that I'm scared about everything, that I feel fat, that I think I'm super fat and that I don't believe in my self.
Anonymous
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A therapist is a therapist. Just say ‘I don’t know how to tell you this so I’m going to lay it out flat’ They won’t judge you, it’s their job to be there for you. 

May 17, 2012
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How do know if I am bipolar? Cause I believe I am
Anonymous
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Bipolar disorder is diagnosed by a doctor. It’s not always what everyone thinks it is. I don’t know you, but you’re probably just experiencing hormones

May 16, 2012
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to be honest i have though about cutting my self before but never could figure out how to do it with out screaming. my life is full of fucking drama and im sick of it. i donthave real friends i have fake ones i dont trust. i have ones that are just there for the title. thern my grades are d-s and im very close to getting held back, im scared i have done everything to not harm my self but i dont know anymorre i just dont knnow.
Anonymous
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Well, just don’t self harm. It’s good that you scream, because you’ll never start. Drama is going to go as soon as you’re out of highschool, because people suck until they grow up. I thought I had fake friends too, but seriously, you’ll get close to them. Just trust them, and let them know how much they mean to you. Just hang on dear <3 Sorry if this advice sucks, it’s just you’re generally speaking in the message, so I don’t know too much detail. Come off anon if you want to send a more detailed message

May 16, 2012
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my bestfriend is dating this kid and the abuse each other all the time. me and my other friend both told them they need to stop or see someone about it and a gym teacher agreed wtith us. im just scard that one day hes gonna hurt her badly and or somthing is gonna bring it to the next level. but yet at 15 she wants to have sex like i dont understand her.
Anonymous
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Well, keep in mind it’s her life. Just look out for her. Over time they’ll break out, and she’ll mature and realize it’s wrong. Just make sure nothing gets to serious. She’s just experimenting, 15 is so young 

May 16, 2012
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hi, ive been having these images in my head about an old family friend touching me and doing sexual things to me.whenever i remember them i feel like ive been molested i dont know whether these images are memories or just my imagination. i havent told anyone so what should i do about them?
Anonymous
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can you please come off anonymous? I wont publish anything, I promise.

May 16, 2012
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my dad hates me. he points knives at me, threatens me, pushes me around, and calls me names. it kills me and i dont know what to do about it. i dont talk to him much but when i do, we fight. what am i supposed to do? with myself, with him...
Anonymous
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Admit to yourself you’re being abused by your dad. Get help that’s always suggested. Tell someone. You may not want to, you may say ‘easier said that done’ you may say ‘what does she know’ but honestly. They tell you to do that for a reason. 

May 16, 2012
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how do i know if im depressed?
Anonymous
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i have to look to far back in my past to this answer. 

May 8, 2012 • 2 notes
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i just cut. i've started and now it's all that i can think about. i'm ugly, too fat, i've no friends, my dad past away when I was 8, my family doesnt care, school's going bad as well. i'm done.
Anonymous
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Well, for the ‘ugly and fat’ part, I can’t say much because I don’t know who you are or what you look like. Think about it though. When you’re in your 20’s and on, you’re out of that greasy pimply awkward weight stage, and you’ll shine hun. From the pain in your past, you’ll know so much and be able to live life to the fullest. Hang in until then. You’ll realize looks don’t matter, friends come easier, and your family doesn’t have to be apart of your life if you don’t want them too. You’re going to mature, and be out of this terrible moment in life you’re experience, I promise.